There are some basic mistakes that – if repeated too often – can really damage your sex life. In this article, we’ll talk about some of the most common errors and explain you how to avoid them.
1. Skipping foreplay is a big no-no
Here’s one precious tip: the more time you’ll put into relaxing your partner, unwinding her, and getting her in the mood, the nicer will be the reward. Thus, it’s highly recommendable to have patience and keep in mind that women need approximately 40 minutes to get ready for action. You can start with a sensual erotic massage, which will give you a great opportunity to explore her body and find out where she loves being touched.
2. Improve your undressing skills
Setting the mood is essential for almost all women. Believe it or not, you can actually kill the mood in a jiffy if our undressing skills are poor or completely lacking. However, some pieces of female clothing seem to me made in order to test guys’ abilities. On the other hand, others are real opportunities to spice things up.
The first thing to do before undressing her is to remember to take your socks off. Trust us, she’ll definitely appreciate this. Moving on, let’s talk about bras. Many women spend a lot on top-notch underwear, hence a man who is lousy at taking it off or breaking a clip on it can ruin the fun. Here’s a little secret: there are several videos and explanatory articles which teach you great techniques of quickly and effortlessly unhooking a bra. Panties are similar, meaning that women tend to invest considerable amounts of money in quality pieces. Therefore, be cautious and take them off slowly, in a teasing way.
3. Keep pornstar sex away from the bedroom
Here’s the deal: just like Santa Claus and wrestling, porn sex isn’t real. Moreover, nothing good for your intimate life can come from actually believing it is. Most women are not very into BDSM or surprise anal sex. While foreplay is something highly appreciated by both partners, pornstar sex and physically impossible positions are expected to turn her off.
4. Not manscaping is not an option
It’s no secret that being tidy and neat down there is always highly appreciated. While you don’t need to shave everything unless you want to, regular manscaping is a definite must. One major advantage of trimming the bush is that it will probably make her way more likely to be creative and adventurous with the oral sex.
5. Being emotionless and totally quiet
Unless she has asked you to, being silent during sex will certainly make her feel that you’re not very into it, you don’t like what she’s doing, thus that she’s not good enough. And, of course, you don’t want to give her this impression of make her feel like she’s having sex with a robot. Moaning, expressing your emotions and complimenting her are three quick and smart fixes that will help you avoid this mistake.
If you’ve ever made one or many of these mistakes, now you know how to fix it and never do it again. Therefore, your sex life will improve and you won’t risk making your partner upset or mad.